Ensuring your partner experiences true pleasure can be challenging, but this blog will make it straightforward.
Want to give her an unforgettable orgasm?
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If you don’t learn these techniques, you might risk losing her to someone who does. I’ll guide you on how to perform oral sex in a way that almost guarantees her pleasure. I’ll also show you how to use your tongue to make her want more of you.
So above anything else, let’s start!
Foreplay
Foreplay is key because it helps get her in the mood and makes sex more enjoyable. The most important thing for arousal is her mind.
Many men make the mistake of jumping straight to oral sex without first making sure she’s relaxed and excited.
Even though some people like sex toys, that’s not the main thing women want.
So, spend time on foreplay to help her feel good and get ready.
What is Foreplay?
Foreplay is everything you do before touching her sensitive areas like her breasts or genitals.
It’s about getting her mind excited first.
While men can get aroused just from seeing a naked body, women usually need some teasing to get into the mood.
Also, porn is made mainly for men, while women often enjoy reading erotica—stories that let them imagine the scene in their own minds.
How To Do Foreplay Properly
1. Send Flirty Texts
Examples:
- “I really want you.”
- “Had a wild dream about you last night…”
- “I’ve got a sexy surprise for you tonight…”
- “I keep thinking about how great you look…”
2. Tease Her During Dinner
How to Tease:
- Kiss her passionately, then pull away.
- Give her a flirtatious look, then look away.
- Whisper something naughty in her ear and give it a gentle bite, then act normal.
- The goal is to build excitement and keep her guessing.
3. Get Her Ready for More
Slowly Undress Her:
- Kiss her and remove one piece of clothing at a time.
- Kiss her in between, but avoid touching her sensitive areas.
Take a Shower Together:
- A shower helps both of you feel clean and relaxed.
- This makes her more comfortable with being intimate.
- This approach helps build anticipation and makes her more excited for when you do get intimate.
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Start Slowly: Begin by kissing and touching her all over, but avoid her private parts at first. Focus on making her feel good and build anticipation.
Explore the Area: Kissing and touching her genitals gently. Avoid focusing on her clitoris just yet. Be soft and take your time.
Begin Licking: When you’re ready, start using your tongue on her clitoris and the surrounding area. Try different movements like up-and-down, circular motions, or gentle sucking. Watch her reactions and adjust based on what she likes.
Use Your Fingers: Gently insert a finger into her and curl it towards you to stimulate her G-spot. Combine this with licking for extra pleasure.
Find What Works: Every woman is different. Start gently and increase pressure and speed based on her responses. If you find something she enjoys, keep doing it.
Enjoy the Process: Don’t rush her to orgasm. Focus on making the experience pleasurable and enjoyable for both of you. Stay connected and have fun together.
Various Pussy Eating Positions
Here are some simple ways to change up oral sex positions:
- Facesitting: You lie on your back, and she sits on your face.
- From Behind: She gets on her hands and knees, and you go down on her from behind.
- Pillow Under Her Butt: Place a pillow under her hips while she’s in the missionary position to make it easier for you to reach her.
- 69 Position: Both of you lie down, with her on top so you can pleasure each other.
Bonus Tips and Techniques for Oral Sex
Here’s a straightforward guide with some extra tips for performing oral sex. While there’s one main technique, these variations can add excitement:
- Sucking Technique
- Shape your lips like an “O” and place them on her clit.
- Start gently and find a rhythm she enjoys.
Variations:
- Suck and move your tongue around her clit.
- Suck and release.
- Use a steady up-and-down sucking motion.
- Wide Lick Technique
- Use a wide, relaxed tongue to lick from the top to the bottom of her vagina.
- Change direction, speed, and pressure as needed.
- Make sure everything is well-lubricated.
- Windshield Wiper Technique
- Move your tongue in a half-circle motion over her clit, like a windshield wiper.
- Stretch & Contract
- Gently press on the sides of her vagina and pull down or up.
This can stimulate areas around the vagina that aren’t usually touched.
- Clit Jerk
- Treat her clit like a small penis and gently pull the foreskin (if present) up and down.
- Be gentle and ensure everything is very wet.
- Pussy and Ass Play
If she’s comfortable, you can explore her anus.
Options:
- Use a condom or latex glove for hygiene.
- Clean up afterward by washing your hands.
- Consider using a butt plug for added stimulation.
Safety Note: Always prioritize cleanliness to avoid transferring germs.
- Pressing Inside
This can stimulate other sensitive areas.
- Play with Senses
- Try blindfolds, bondage, or binaural beats to enhance the experience.
- Use Sex Toys
- Sex toys can add variety and boost pleasure.
- Womanizer Starlet 2: A clit-sucking toy for quick orgasms.
- Njoy Pure Wand: A heavy, angled toy for deep stimulation.
Note: Buy from reputable stores like LoveHoney to avoid fakes.
- The Pancake
- Stick out your tongue, make it flat, and coat it with saliva.
- Place it at the bottom of the vagina and move it towards the clit in a consistent motion.
- The Vortex
- Form your lips into a larger “O” shape and place them over her clit.
- Suck gently, using saliva to enhance the sensation.
- BDSM
- Incorporate light bondage for added excitement.
- You can tie her up or be tied up to intensify the experience.
- Alternatively, let her take control and direct the action.
- Feel free to experiment and find what works best for both of you. Communication is key to a pleasurable experience.
Final Words
Effective oral sex involves focusing on thorough foreplay, exploring different techniques, and paying attention to your partner’s responses. Start gently, adjust based on her reactions, and enjoy the process together. Communication and patience are key to enhancing pleasure and creating a memorable experience. Make sure to prioritize her comfort and enjoyment.