Kissing with the tongue is a great method to have fun with your partner that excites sensitive erogenous zones while offering mutual enjoyment. Whether you’re a beginner or an expert, I am going to tell you the fundamentals you need to know before you smooch.
What Is a Tounge Kiss?
A tongue kiss (also popular as a French Kiss, an intense kiss, or making out) is a kiss in which one or both companions make use of their tongues to excite each other’s mouths for mutual sexual enjoyment. French kisses can be more exciting than kisses without the tongue since the lips, tongue, and different parts of the mouth are strong sensual zones that generate sexual arousal.
The term Frech kiss was invented in America and Britain in the initial stage of the 1900s when people used to think that French culture was more open to trying different sexual things.
How to Tongue Kiss
Let’s look at how to perform a basic French kiss:
Choose a comfortable place: Since French kissing generally takes a bit longer than a normal kiss on the lips, you’ll have to choose a cozy place where both you and your kissing partner feel comfortable and carefree. A bedroom or private area is an ideal place to start a kissing session. Turn on the mood by playing romantic music, a good room fragrance, and lighting some candles.
Look at your partner: Look at your partner’s face so your eyes are at the same level, and make eye contact to express how you feel connected to them and how much you love them. If it’s your first time French kissing and you want to convey some signals that you’re turned on, try thoroughly looking at your partner’s lips and then back up to their eyes. If they responded to your flirty glance, and smile, then what are you waiting for? move closer they are also interested. GO ON!
Move Closer and Tilt Your Head: Once you observe that your partner is also interested, incline towards their lips and tilt your head, so your noses don’t come in between your pleasure. If you both tilt the same way at first, just adjust your head so you’re tilting in opposite directions.
Start with your lips: Instead of jumping straight into a French kiss, begin with softer kisses. Start with closed-mouth kisses, gently touching your lips to your partner’s. You can switch between light and more passionate kisses, and mix in some open-mouthed kisses too. It’s fine to keep your hands at your sides, but if you want, you can gently touch their waist, back, or face while you kiss, as long as they’re okay with it.
Start a French kiss by first having a few regular kisses: Then, lightly brush your tongue against your partner’s lips. This is a way to ask if they’re ready for a French kiss. If they respond by touching their tongue to yours, it means they’re interested. If not, keep with the regular kisses for now. If they’re ready, open your lips slightly and gently use your tongue to explore their lips and tongue. Move slowly and match their pace and style. If your partner enjoys hugging while kissing, use your hands to hold them close.
Conclude: Tongue or French kissing can be a pleasureful activity all on its own, without this progressing towards anything further. If you and your partner don’t want to move to sexual activity, simply French kiss until you both get satisfied. However, French kissing can also be a strong part of foreplay. If you and your partner want to switch to sexual intercourse, you can move your hands to begin exciting your partner’s body (mainly the hips, chest, or other sensitive zones)
Tips for French Kissing
Keep your breath fresh: Bad breath can be distracting. Avoid strong-smelling foods like onions and garlic before kissing. Brush your teeth or use a mint to freshen up.
Care for your lips: Smooth, healthy lips make kissing better. Drink water and use chapstick to keep your lips in good shape.
Go slow: French kissing should be slow and enjoyable. Don’t rush; take your time and enjoy the moment.
Have fun: Don’t stress about it. Relax, enjoy the kiss, and laugh if things don’t go perfectly.
Final Words
So here I am concluding this blog, kissing isn’t something like rocket science. Finding out what you and your partner like is a process, and you’ll learn a lot as you go. Kissing preferences might even change with time, the situation, and your partner. And Wait, Want a Pro Suggestion? The more you kiss, the more good at kissing you’ll become!
Enjoy every kiss and make it exciting and fun. Connect with your partner, and let each kiss be special!
Note: Some studies have shown that there is a good chance of passing HPV through tongue kissing. For more details, click here. It is also possible to pass the Herpes virus (HSV1) via kissing. HSV1 is the virus that causes common cold sore.